Intermolecular exciton transfers and related conical intersections are analyzed by diabatization for time dependent density functional theory. The diabatic states are expressed as a linear combination of the adiabatic states so as to emulate the well-defined reference states. The singlet exciton coupling calculated by the diabatization scheme includes contributions from the Coulomb (Forster) and electron exchange (Dexter) couplings. For triplet exciton transfers, the Dexter coupling, charge transfer integral, and diabatic potentials of stacked molecules are calculated for analyzing direct and superexchange pathways. We discuss some topologies of molecular aggregates that induce conical intersections on the vanishing points of the exciton coupling, namely boundary of H- and J-aggregates and T-shape aggregates, as well as canceled exciton coupling to the bright state of H-aggregate, i.e., selective exciton transfer to the dark state. The diabatization scheme automatically accounts for the Berry phase by fixing the signs of reference states while scanning the coordinates.