We describe the synthesis of the new ternary compound CaRuSi whose chemical and physical properties help draw a clear picture of how electronic structure controls the behavior of an isostructural series of intermetallics. DFT calculations reveal that an electronic pseudogap arises near the Fermi level (E-F), corresponding to 14 valence electrons per RuSi unit. The closed-shell-like character is further investigated by comparisons with the electronic structures of CaCoSi (15 electrons), where the E-F lies above the corresponding pseudogap, and its hydride CaCoSiH, where formation of H anions restores the 14-electron count on the metal sublattice, returning the E-F to the pseudogap. The chemical origin of the 14-electron pseudogap is interpreted with a reversed approximation Molecular Orbital analysis. Here, the pseudogap is shown to coincide with the filling of Ru 16 electron configurations isolobal to the d(8) square planar complexes of coordination chemistry (but where 4 electron pairs are shared covalently between Ru atoms such that only 12 electrons are required), and the occupation of Si lone pairs (2 electrons). Experimentally, the pseudogap is confirmed with heat capacity measurements, which indicate that the 14-electron systems CaRuSi and CaCoSiH each exhibit a smaller electronic density of states at the E-F than the 15-electron system CaCoSi. Importantly, the 14-electron pseudogap also significantly affects the chemical properties of the compounds, as evidenced by the difference in the stabilities of CaCoSiH and CaRuSiH observed in hydrogen desorption measurements. These results may support the design of functional materials for superconductivity, hydrogen storage, and catalysis involving hydrogenation.