This paper is intended to tackle the control problem associated with an extended phase field system of Cahn-Hilliard type that is related to a tumor growth model. This system has been investigated in previous contributions from the viewpoint of well-posedness and asymptotic analyses. Here, we aim to extend the mathematical studies around this system by introducing a control variable and handling the corresponding control problem. We try to keep the potential as general as possible, focusing our investigation towards singular potentials, such as the logarithmic one. We establish the existence of optimal control, the Lipschitz continuity of the control-to-state mapping and even its Frechet differentiability in suitable Banach spaces. Moreover, we derive the first-order necessary conditions that an optimal control has to satisfy.