Twelve complexes 1-12 of general category [M(ligand)(anion)(x)(water)(y)], where ligand = N,N,N',N'-tetrakis(2-hydroxypropyl/ethyl)ethylenediamine (HPEN/HEEN), anion = anions of picric acid (PIC), 3,5-dinitrobenzoic acid (DNB), 2,4-dinitrophenol (DNP), and o-nitrobenzoic acid (ONB), M = Ca2+, Sr2+, Ba2+, or Na+, x = 1 and 2, and y = 0-4, were synthesized, All of these complexes were characterized by elemental analysis, IR, H-1 and C-13 NMR, and thermal studies. X-ray crystal studies of these complexes 1-12, [Ca(HPEN)(H2O)(2)](PIC)(2)(H2O)-H-. (1), [Ca(HEEN)(PIC)]-(PIC) (2), Ba(HPEN)(PIC)(2) (3), [Na(HPEN)(PIC)](2) (4), Ca(HPEN)(H2O)(2)](DNB)(2)-H2O (5),Ca(HEEN)(H2OTDNB)(2)-H2O (6), [Sr(H PEN) (H2O)(3)] (DNB)(2) (7), [Ba(H PEN) (H2O)(2)](DNB)(2)(H2O)-H-.](2) (8), {[Ba(HEEN)(H2O)(2)](ONB)(2)}(2) (9), {[Sr(HPEN)-(H2O)(2)](DNP)(2)}(2) (10), {[Ba(HPEN)(H2O)(2)](DNP)(2)}(2) (11), and [Ca(HEEN)(DNP)](DNP) (H2O) (12), have been carried out at room temperature. Factors which influence the stability and the type of complex formed have been recognized as H-bonding interactions, presence/absence of solvent, nature of the anion, and nature of the cation. Both the ligands coordinate the metal ion through all the six available donor atoms. The complexes 1 and 5-11 have water molecules in the coordination sphere, and their crystal structures show that water is playing a dual character. It coordinates to the metal ion on one hand and strongly hydrogen bonds to the anion on the other. These strong hydrogen bonds stabilize the anion and decrease the cation-anion interactions by many times to an extent that the anions are completely excluded out of the coordination sphere and produce totally charge-separated complexes. In the absence of water molecules as in 2 and 3 the number of hydrogen bonds is reduced considerably. In both the complexes the anions case interact more strongly with the metal ion to give rise to a partially charge-separated 2 or tightly ion-paired 3 complex. High charge density Call forms only monomeric complexes. It has more affinity toward stronger nucleophiles such as DNP and PIC with which it gives partially charge-separated eight-coordinated complexes. But with relatively weaker nucleophile like DNB, water replaces the anion and produces a seven coordinated totally charge-separated complex. Sr2+ with lesser charge/radius ratio forms only charge-separated monomeric as well as dimeric complexes, Higher coordination number of Sr2+ is achieved with coordinated water molecules which may be bridging or nonbridging in nature. All charge-separated complexes of the largest Ball are dimeric with bridging water molecules, Only one monomeric ion-paired complex was obtained with Ba(PIC)(2), Na+ forms a unique dinuclear cryptand-like complex with HPEN behaving as a heptadentate chelating-cum-bridging ligand.